“Does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth.” (1 Corinthians 13:6)
Sadly, error has often been shielded in the name of love. Although love forgives the greatest sins, it does not condone them. “Do not judge!” a person cries as a strange looking sheep enters the congregation. I beg their pardon, but neither I nor anyone else wishes to be torn to shreds by a wolf. Christ told us not to judge according to the appearance but judge with righteous judgement (John 7:24). That is how love judges. Overlooking a friend’s sin is like ignoring a leak in their boat; you are helping them drown.
Also, love is thrives in an environment of truth and will wither in error. Some have gotten the notion that it is loving to accept all who profess Christ as genuine, regardless of what they believe. But that is being unloving, to that person and to God. Would you want your friend to give their life savings to conman? It is unloving to let a person think they're headed to heaven if their lives show they are headed for hell. Wouldn't it be kinder to warn them before it's too late? And we're being unloving to God when we accept a doctrine that dishonors or misrepresents Him. Would you like it if someone called your mother a liar? Then don't let others call God one!
Some people wonder how a Christian can hate sin but not the sinner. What if you had a loved one who stabbed themselves everyday? Would you love what they were doing to themselves? Wouldn't you do everything in your power to make them stop? Or what if you had a friend that smoked all the time, wouldn't you still love them even though you can't stand the smell of cigarettes? Genuine love cannot tolerate anything that destroys and since sin destroys, love hates sin. “You may depend upon that man who will tell you of your faults in a kind and considerate manner.” *
And if we don't love righteousness, we can't love God because He is righteousness. “If you love Me, you will keep My commandments,” (John 14:15). Since we love God more than all our heart, soul, and mind, we should be willing to sacrifice anything for Him—even our most cherished sins. The desire to please Him should consume our heart and the way to please Him is by practicing godliness. True, our works can never earn our salvation anymore than a few pennies could pay off the national debt. Rather, they are a small token of our gratitude for all He's done for us.
*C.H. Spurgeon, Spurgeon’s Sermons Volume Three (Hendrickson Publishers, 2016), 16.
What is life? What defines it?
Even the dictionary can’t describe it.
If you had to define it, what would you see?
If it was left up to me, this is what it’d be:
Life is more than writing and reading a book,
More than eating and learning how to cook,
It is more than watching movies and having fun,
More than buying merchandise by the ton,
Life is more than science, math, and school.
It is more than impressing people and being called “cool.”
If that was all life was, I’d call my life useless,
And the best things I did, worthless.
Living would not even be worthwhile,
If it were only having a money pile.
Is life living for your family or your friend?
No, life is living for the One who has no end.
Life is loving Him who first loved you,
And serving Him in all you do.
Immeasurable joy, immeasurable love,
Are gifts from our Father above.
Sacrificing for others, being called His,
This, my friend, is what life is.
This was originally published on Kingdom Pen.
“Does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered.” (1 Corinthians 13:5)
Love never stains its gown by playing in the mud. Love acts like it looks—beautiful. If we are dressed in love, all our outward ugliness will fade in comparison. And just because love is humble, doesn't mean it's not dignified. It can be worn at any occasion, whether it's casual or formal. It doesn't yell, balk, bite or wear a sour expression because that would go against its dress code. When I whine or roll my eyes I've torn love's gown. Too often stressful situations have made me act unbecomingly. The next time you're tempted have a fit, think back to the last time this happened and how it effected others. Did it make you feel any better? Did it give you peace? A calm state may be hard to maintain during a hurricane but an unbecoming attitude will blow you toward the eye of the storm.
Have you ever sacrificed something for someone (however small)? If not, are you sure you have love? We all tend to think of ourselves first, even the best of us. We go to great lengths to make ourselves comfortable and happy with usually little or no thought about someone else. Count how many times you thought of yourself today and how many times you thought of others. You may be shocked at how many times you think of yourself. If our thoughts are consumed with ourselves, how will we follow the command of laying down our life for our friends (c.f. John 15:13)? It's not too likely we'll have the opportunity to risk our lives for another's, but opportunities for sacrifice arise every day. Missing the football game to help out your grandma, cleaning the kitchen for your mom instead of watching your favorite TV show, or staying late to help your boss when you'd rather be resting, are a few examples of the little sacrifices we can make each day. Instead of thinking how to make life easier for yourself, think how you can make your parents, sibling’s, friend’s, or strangers easier too. “Let no one seek his own good, but that of his neighbor” (1Corinthians 10:24).
Paul never said love is not easily provoked, but that it's not provoked. I must admit, I'm not easily provoked, but when I am, I am sharper than a porcupine. My quills start spiking every time someone criticizes my writing, cooking, or artwork. I'm being unloving when I do that. I need to remember that I've offended others many times, even if unintentionally (c.f. Ecclesiastes 7:21-22). Christ had much more reason to be angry than us, yet the only time He ever displayed anger was when the temple was defiled (Matt. 21:12-13, John 2:13-17). Anger is permissible when it's for God's honor, as long as it doesn't turn into hatred or violence. I'm not saying we should stand back while other people are harming us or others. But just because we shouldn't hit back, doesn't mean we can't block the opponents punch. “When we are injured, we are bound as Christians to bear it without malice; but we are not to pretend that we do not feel it, for this will but encourage our enemies to kick us again.” *
“God forgive them, for they know not what they do” is the greatest declaration of a loving heart. Christ forgave His tormentors while they were tormenting Him. How can our hearts be hardened over petty offenses when our King bore the ultimate insult? He forgives thousands of sins, why can't we forgive one? He forgives instantly, why must we withhold our forgiveness for months? You don't have to offer a friend who has betrayed you immediate restoration into your heart—you don't even have to be friends again—but you need to let go of hate and wish them the best wherever they go, even if drift farther away from you.
*C.H. Spurgeon, The Complete John Ploughman: Combined Edition of John Ploughman's Talk and John Ploughman's Pictures (Christian Focus Publications, 2007), 34.
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